Tuesday, July 12, 2011

the paradox of grief

to lose means that you once had.

and that, in itself, is something to be cherished.


  1. wow that was similar to the only card I remembered and cherished after my dad died. It said, "What you sorrow for, brought so much joy" ... so true ...

  2. I remember breaking up at the end of SaySay's eulogy when I delivered a closing sentence with that same essence.

  3. how do you apply that? That's something I find it very hard to do..people say that to me, but I can't seem to do it.